1. Parking light connection is highly recommended especially on this vehicle since it does diagnostics through parking lights in the event if does not start. The connector for the parking lights is right on the light switch assembly on the steering column, (look at picture no. 3 on the first page of guide 25501
2. If you are using a remote starter with the Evo-All, power and ground need to be connected on your remote starter to the vehicle as shown in the guide, then power to the Evo-All is provided through the datalink wire. You can hardwire the Evo-All to the vehicle as you did but you still need to provide power and ground to your remote starter. Communication between the remote starter and Evo-All is done through the Blue and White data wires in the Datalink cable. YOU NEED A COMPATIBLE REMOTE STARTER WITH A DATALINK PORT, (And the proper datalink protocol set in the Evo-All
3. After looking at your service number, you are still using the default firmware 4.18 you will never be able to program this unit in this car since it has not been flashed (using a Flashlink-2 Updater and Flashlink Manager 3.52) to the proper firmware and right settings set in the Evo-All. YOU NEED TO FLASH FIRMWARE VERSION 71.27 and set options that are in Guide number 25501
4 You also need to tell us what kind of remote starter you are using and the year of the vehicle AND IF THE VEHICLE HAS AN OEM ALARM SYSTEM.